At this time,
many babies are born in the world. Most of them have parents, but some
of them do not have parents. That is, parents abandon their babies because
they are poor and do not want to bring up their babies. In the pst, almost
the only reason was because of poverty, but now those who desert babies,
especially unmarried mothers, give up their babies for future happiness.
So many babies and children are orphaned.
Most deserted
babies go to orphanages. However orphanages do not have good environments.
As far as I know, when orphans are young they do not have good educations.
As they grow up, they fall into bad ways. Of course, some of them live
well, but most them live with difficulty. It is difficult for them to work
because most people have a prejudice against orphans. So they cannot have
a lots of chances to find jobs.
Therefore,
we have to make systems for orphans. One good way is adoption. Adoption
has lots of advantages for many reasons. First, orphans can have parents
and siblings. Adopted children can fell the affection of families. Moreover,
they can have better environments than in an orphanage. Second, couples
who cannot conceive can have a good to bring up a child. Therefore, adoption
gives both the couple and an adopted child happiness. Another method depends
on our government. The government must build good institutions for orphans
as a national project. Furthermore, the government should not try to improve
surroundings of orphanages.
Our country,
Korea, sends babies abroad. I think that this is bad. Of course, they may
have a better environment and education. However, I think that Koreans
have to bring up Koreans. As adopted children grow up, they feel that they
are foreigners abroad. This hurts them mentally. For example, one year
ago I watched a man who was adopted when he was a newborn on TV. He wanted
to find his family and finally found his mother were happy at first, but
he could not speak Koran. So an interpreter had to help them. They could
not say what was in their hears to each other. Therefore they became sad,
and he had to go back to the U. S. A At that time I felt sad and thought
that though they were mother and son externally, they were not real mother
and son in their hearts.
Many Korean
people think that adoption is not good. People in our country think that
lineage is most important. So they do not want to adopt orphans. However,
I think that the environment in which people live is more important than
blood relations to people. People are creatures of circumstances. Therefore
we must change our opinion.
I have heard
that the proportion of Korean orphans adopted abroad is the highest in
the world. Now, we have to think about deserted babies and children as
a serious social problem. We have to think about why many people desert
their babies and try to remove the causes. Hopefully, we must put away
our prejudices about orphans. If we try harder, deserted children want
ought to be our only concern. We must love deserted children like our own
children.