Koreans have some
different drinking manners from other countries. When young people drink
with those who are older than them, for example, they should drop to their
knees and receive a drink to show respect for older people. On the other
hand, when they drink with friends or classmates, they can make a friend
very easily even though they are meeting for the first time. However, we
often don't think about negative consequences which can arise from drinking.
First, drinking
can cause physical problems. When freshmen enter a university, senior students
usually hold a drinking party to celebrate and congratulate their entrance.
Although some of the freshmen refuse to drink, senior students try to force
to drink heavily at the party, and then that causes problems.
About seven months
ago, I heard through the mass media that one freshman died at such an entrance
party. He was a freshman at Yonsei University. He entered the university
with good grades. After the orientation party was over, senior students
held another party at a motel. At that time, he was drunk already. The
next morning, one of his freshman classmates found him dead. Until he was
found by that freshman at 5 o'clock, senior students didn't know what they
had caused the night before. Finally, his airway was clogged by some food
while he was throwing up without consciousness. That's what killed him.
What is the real purpose of these parties? Nobody, especilly senior students,
cna answer easily.
Second, drinking
can interrupt your university life. College students should spend their
school life on studying or broadening their view on society--that must
be the most important part of our college life--but many students forget
that fact. Sometimes, when you are drinking, you can black out and make
some mistakes without consciousness like fighting or committing a crime.
That may lead you to lose your relations with classmates. Without close
friends' help, you can't live university life well. In addition, that makes
students become indifferent to studying. During vacations, when they receive
their class grades, they may be surprised, but then it will be too late.
Certainly, Korean
drinking manners have a positive side. At a drinking party, we can share
our feeling and anxieties, which we can't talk about easily in ordinary
life, without reluctance. So, we can learn how to get along with people
and how to make freinds. However, we shouldn't forget the fact that drinking
can also cause a lot of negative consequences. At this time, I dare to
say to all university students, don't spend too much time drinking and
don't force someone to drink with the biased opinion that everybody should
drink a lot. It is tiem to throw away our biased opinions about drinking.
Please, put yourself in other people's shoes when you are at a drinking
party. At best, drinking can be a temporary way to escape from daily stress.
Don't forget that you are so young. You have a lot of things to do in your
university life. You can broaden your way of thinking by studying your
major and having deep discussion with other students, which will help you
to prepare for your future life and to make it better.