How much do
you know about stalking? Stalking is a serious crime but it is regarded
as love by the stalker. A person who repeatedly follows
a specific person who doesn't want to be followed
is called a stalker. Nowadays, as you know, there
are lots of problems caused by stalkers. The most
significant problem is that there are no powerful laws to protect the victims
in Korea. You should know clearly about what stalking
is and now, I want to tell you about stalking.
The most well
known stalking type is people who follow entertainers.
They tell their victims, "I love you so much. You must accept my love."
But, it's not a fact but a serious mental disease.
Maybe you've seen the Hollywood movie, Misery.
It's a representative example of this type of stalker.
The heroin wants to hold her idol, a famous novelist,
at her side. Her eyes look like a mad person's, and
she acts like a mad person. Therefore, she breaks his leg with a hammer,
and at the end of the movie, she wants to kill him to hold him at her side
eternally. Think about the situation. It's terrible.
There are lots
of stalking affairs involving entertainers in Korea,
too. For example, one of the most famous actresses, Choi Jin-sil, has been
followed by many stalkers. She has feared for her
safety, so she has changed her phone number and cellular
phone number many times, and even has been protected
by bodyguards. Besides her case, there are lots of stalking cases involving
other entertainers in Korea.
Secondly, there
are many examples of stalking in our general lives.
The stalkers continuously follow ordinary people who
don't have any special appearance or character. Though
they say, "I love you," it's not a true love. They have
the same reason as the stalkers who follow the entertainers.
It's a mental disease, too. The reason that the stalkers follow ordinary
people is often that they have had unhappy relationships
with them. They repeatedly follow the victims, appear at the victim's homes,
or engage in threatening conduct. If the victim fears for his or hersafety,
it's not a normal love anymore. This is mental andphysical violence. Imagine
yourself in that situation. Howhorrible that would be!
The state of
New Hampshire in the United States passed a stalking
law in July 1993. If a stalker causes fear to a victim,
the victim can call the police, and the police can arrest
the stalker. The victim should keep all mail, gifts, and
phone messages for evidence to be turned over to the police.
I think that there are more incidents of stalking in America than in Korea.
Furthermore, stalking is recognized as a more serious
crime in America than in Korea. We should change our
minds. Stalking is a serious social problem and we
should protect the victims with powerful laws.
As I mentioned
above, the most important problem is that there are no powerful laws to
protect the victims in Korea. Though the victim calls the police and the
police arrest the offender, the offender is usually
released soon.
Remember this:
Stalking is a crime and a mental disease. Stalking is clearly a serious
social crime and we should recognize it as a crime.
The Korean National Assembly should pass powerful
laws, and we should show more concern for the victims of stalking.