It was my first
summer vacation after I entered my university, and I wanted to spend my
vacation well. So I planned that I would have a part-time job, study English
hard, and go to the sea with my friends. But I didn't do even one of those
things in the summer vacation. One day, I was spending my time doing nothing.
I was watching TV while lying on the sofa changing channels with the TV
remote control, when I saw a woman on a talk show.
I found out
that her name was Kim Tae-yon, and she had succeeded in the computer business
in the U.S. She looked like she was 30 years old, but she was in her 50s.
Her face was pretty with big eyes and a big mouth, and she had whiteskin.
She was splendid. She wore heavy make up, she wore a miniskirt and high-heeled
shoes, and she had decked herself out with jewelry. She didn't look natural
but artificial. I usually didn't like people who were superficial, but
I liked her. It was her stature that surprised me most. She was only about
150 cm tall.
After I saw
her on TV, I immediately bought her book that she had written about her
life. The title of her book was Grand Master. She was born in the country
on one January first in the 1940s, and she grew up being treated harshly
by her grandfather because he thought that a daughter born on the first
day of the new year was an evil omen. Also, whenever her father drank alcohol,
he hit her. But she had confidence in herself because she learned taekwondo
from her uncle, and she did everything actively. After she graduated from
high school, she went to the U.S. with her family because her father went
bankrupt. When she moved there for the first time, nobody paid attention
to her. So she made herself known to people by visiting her neighbors from
door to door. She started to teach taekwondo in a high school after she
persuaded the principal to allow her to teach it to students. Also, she
studied in a community college in the evening. She established an academy
where she taught taekwondo with the money which she made by doing chores
like washing dishes.
In addition,
there were a lot of students who were involved in violence, sex, and drugs
at her academy. She gave them love, and she praised the students for their
courage though they did something small. In the meantime, she got married
to an American
man, but she was not happy and divorced soon. Nevertheless, she was not
frustrated, and she adopted eight youths who went to her academy as her
sons and daughters. Her five sons and three daughters were orphans and
homeless. So she proposed that they could live in her house. Also, she
started a computer business with her sons and daughters, and her company
came to be included among the one hundred most promising enterprises in
the U.S. Her company's name was Lighthouse, and the specialty of her company
was clean-room monitoring systems
Kim Tae-yon
is a proud Korean who made the American Dream come true. I hoped to be
similar to her, so I tried to follow her example. Of course, she had a
lot of influence on me. First, she made me think more positively. No matter
how much difficulty she had in doing something, she had thought positively,
saying to herself, "I can do it." Second, her example encouraged me to
learn taekwondo. I told my father that I wanted to learn taekwondo, and
he tried to persuade me to learn the art of fencing, because it is hard
for women to learn taekwondo. But I decided to learn it because I wanted
to be like Kim Tae-yon. Third, she helped me to have an unbiased view.
I thought short people had a lot of disadvantages. For example, especially
in the case of women, appearance, including stature, is important when
they are employed.
Also, in my
case, when I tried to do something, I sometimes heard the words, "You can't
do it because you're too short." When I heard such words, I lost confidence
in myself. But after seeing her, I didn't think that way anymore. Instead,
I said to myself, "I will become a person who is small but big." And through
her, I realized short people could succeed in their life and short people
could even be powerful leaders like Napoleon, Park Jung-hee and Deng Xiao
Ping in China. Also, I thought that women who wore heavy make up and dressed
up might be foolish, but after seeing her, I thought that most women like
that could do their best in all respects, because they look clean, and
they look so perfect that they don't shed a drop of blood, despite being
pierced by a needle. In conclusion, I spent my summer vacation doing nothing,
but I found out about a small but big woman, and I learned a lot of positive
things from her. I thought negatively that I was too short, so I couldn't
a lot of things. But after I saw a woman who was shorter than me succeeded
and did most things she wanted, I have a hope that I can do everything
that I want. Also, I learned to develop mind and body equally is important.