Nowadays many singers and dancers who play parts in TV programs influence
teenagers very much in Korea; in other words, they absolutely influence
teenagers' personality. Generally speaking, there are a lot of problems
which are caused by the stars to the young. The problems are not just their
matters, but they are problems of our society, too, because teenagers are
our future. Then how can adults accept their unconditional actions or passions
for the stars?
A few months ago, there was a TV program that dealt with a student who
ran away from home and followed singers (for example, H.O.T., Turbo, Yu
Seung Jun, etc.). The student said that she was 22 years old and lived
in Cheju. She also said that her parents allowed her to go to Seoul. But
her parents didn't know why she wanted to go to Seoul. She made money from
part-time jobs and spent it on the singers. She made passbooks for the
stars and paid into these accounts, and these passbooks were gifts for
the stars. Of course, she didn't come in contact with her family and her
friends; furthermore, she slept on the back streets or in subway stations.
One day, she cried because a singer didn't look at her and ignored her.
That day, she went to the broadcasting station to meet her stars with gifts
and flowers. She called the stars' names, but the stars didn't look at
her. At the end of the show, she thought that they betrayed her and was
so depressed. Moreover, she was exposed to a dangerous environment.
This is not the only case like this. The serious problem is that there
are many middle or high school students like the girl I mentioned. The
collect photographs of their favorite stars and imitate them in fashion,
screaming and crying for them. But adults are not fond of these odd actions.
So older people censure the younger people. However, do adults have to
abuse young students because they are irresponsible and not mature? That
is not the proper manner to face them and understand them. Adults must
think about the time when they loved the stars of their time and followed
them. At that time the ex-adolescents might have complained that their
parents didn't understand them either but abused them. Why did they complain
at that time? That is because students of every generation want to live
according to their own rules. But the rules changed as they grew up because
they became responsible for their behaviors; at the same time, they forgot
their dreams and ideals.
The girl I mentioned above is an extreme example. But her story is true.
I can understand both groups as a person who is a member of the "middle"
generation. I think the problem is not just the fault of adolescents. They
need many chances to relieve their tension from studying, and TV stars
can help adolescents take a rest and enjoy their time. Of course, I don't
mean every adolescent is right and every adult is wrong, but adolescents
should know how to control their passion and how to be tolerant. Adolescents
are not mature, but they have their own culture; therefore, adults must
try to understand it. In addition, the government should make a branch
office to defend adolescents from the dangerous environment, or adolescents
who leave home will have no choice but going to dark places in this society
(for example, unlicensed prostitute streets). The old generations have
responsibilities to protect the young generations. These are the best ways
to overcome the generation gap between older people and younger people
and save adolescents from unconditional passion and dangerous environments.