Felonious juvenile crimes have been on a sharp rise these days. This is
one of the most serious social problems. I think the cause is the shortage
of love. Because the juveniles were not loved by their parents, especially
their mothers, in their babyhood, they might not be able to love other
people and the world. Babyhood is the most important time of all growth
periods.
Above all, the intellectual and emotional faculties are built up at that
time. Besides, one's personality is formed at the same time. According
to their parents' influence, the children's human nature will become different.
Nowadays, society considers the emotional faculties to be a great deal
of weight on children. So impetuous mothers torment their children who
are going to elementary school. For example, the mothers buy expensive
training aids and force their children to study them, or they send their
children to various educational institutes: piano, fine arts, composition,
etc. But their emotional faculties are not made in that way. I heard that
when the mother bought a walking stick for her father with her son, his
emotional faculties increased highly.
Kohlberg said that the sense of morality is constituted before about thirteen
years of age. And an American psychopathologist, Erikson, said that the
social nature is determined before the same age. As it were, in accordance
with their parents' attitude of bringing up children, they may or may not
be able to become adults who are self-regulating, trust the world, and
take the lead in social life.
For these reasons, I think a woman who has young children should not have
a job outside the home until they graduate from elementary school at least.
Furthermore, if the mothers are in the home, they can breastfeed their
babies. This helps to develop their resistance power to disease. Also,
while mothers are breastfeeding their babies making eye contact, the babies
will feel a sense of security and come to learn what love is. Therefore,
at the most important time, babyhood and childhood, mothers must be in
the home.