Several weeks ago there was news about a middle school student who hid
the fact that she was pregnant. As the time for birth came near, she visited
her uncle's house in the countryside. The toilet, located outside the house,
is where her child was born. She placed the child in the toilet and then
left her uncle's house. Later her uncle found the baby's corpse. The police
charged the girl with murder. Unfortunately, this case is not rare.
Some middle school students and high school students have sexual intercourse
without knowing what is awaiting them if the girl gets pregnant. I believe
that this ignorance is caused by the lack of sex education. Although they
might be concerned about pregnancy, they think there is a simple operation
to get rid of babies--abortion.
There are many abortions in Korea. Some women get abortions because they
only want to have sons. In Asian countries, it is routine to think only
of selective abortions to get rid of daughters when we talk about this
procedure. But in fact, 50 percent of all abortions are performed on teenagers.
Pregnancy is a very precious thing. It is a gift for married couples. If
a teenager becomes pregnant, the natural meaning of pregnancy changes.
It has occurred as the result of sin. She starts to think of the baby as
a symbol of embarrassment.
These girls' parents feel the same way, or even worse. They do not regard
the baby as their grandchild. If Korean parents know their daughter is
pregnant, they do everything to get rid of the fetus. They make their daughters
get abortions even seven or eight months into the pregnancy, which I believe
is murder.
There have been cases where parents have asked the doctor to induce labor
to cause a premature delivery. This can cause deformed babies. The parents
and daughter often leave the baby in the hospital and disappear.
Regardless of the reasons, these thoughtless actions result in the loss
of our humanity.
In order to prevent more of these tragedies from happening, the government
should build more care centers for unwed pregnant teenagers so that they
do not feel so desperately alone. Then, at least, babies would not be left
in toilets.
Society must realize that teenagers these days are different from adults.
Confucian values have had an effect on many adults. On the contrary, the
majority of teenagers accept values from Western cultures. Before it is
too late, both the grown-ups and the youngsters must cooperate to preserve
the humanity of our society.