The Wow News,
Faculty Column, p. 2
Hong Ik University,
Department of English Education
June 7, 1985
Anyone who has spent any length of time in Korea can easily recognize the
pattern. A foreigner on a bus or the subway or sitting alone in a coffee
shop is the most likely target. It begins when a Korean student--usually
carrying a copy of an English language newspaper or listening to an English
cassette tape on a Walkman stereo--spots the target and gradually works
his way to within striking distance.
After a minute or two, the student works up the courage for his opening
line. "Excuse me. Do you have the time?" or "Where are you from?" or simply
"Hello." That opens the door to the usual flood of questions: "How long
have you been in Korea? What do you do for a living? Are you married? How
old are you? What's your hobby? Where do you live? What's your favorite
Korean food? and so on and so on.
For some reason, I seem to be an easy target. Maybe part of the reason
is because I have no car, and I often travel by subway or bus. Whatever
the reason, I'm usually the victim of this kind of attack several times
a week, so nowadays I can easily rattle off the answers to most of the
questions without interrupting my own train of thought: "Hello. It's 8:37.
Ohio. About a year and a half. I'm an English teacher. No. 28. Studying
Korean. Seogyo-Dong. Bulgogi." etc.
But don't get me wrong; I'm not complaining! I look at it as a kind of
game--trying to guess which people in the crowd want to start a conversation,
and how long it will take before they ask the first question. As a matter
of fact, unless I'm tired or busy or have just had a really bad day, I
usually welcome the chance to kill some time, and I feel a little disappointed
when someone I guessed would start a conversation chickens out and waits
one bus stop or one subway station too long. I've had many interesting
talks and even made a few lasting friendships from this kind of initial
contact.
It goes without saying that having a one-to-one relationship with a native
English-speaking friend is one of the best ways for a student to improve
his English conversation ability. Unfortunately, the ratio of students
to native speakers and students to native-speaking instructors is discouragingly
high. So, as an English teacher, I try to encourage my students to talk
to foreigners whenever they have a chance. That doesn't mean that you have
to hit every foreigner in sight with a barrage of questions from your middle
school textbook, however.
To tell the truth, most foreigners are sick and tired of answering questions
about thier hobbies, family, favorite singer, first impression of Korea,
etc. You'll hve a much better chance of starting a conversation, and perhaps
even making a friend, if you ask an interesting and natural question or
make a natural or helpful comment.
In their enthusiasm to practice English, many students seem to forget that
a foreigner on the subway is not jsut a conversation opportunity, but also
a person. Show a genuine interest and try to say something in English that
you would like to say in Korean.
Also remember that language is not the only difference. You are also dealing
with cultural differences. Privacy is very important to many foreigners,
especially Americans. It's usually not a good idea to approach an American
sitting alone reading a newspaper in a quiet corner of a coffee shop or
a park, for instance. Chances are that he is honestly enjoying his solitude
and will not appreciate the intrusion at all. Also, some questions that
seem quite natural to Koreans are considered very personal by many foreigners.
Questions about age or money, for instance, may very well not produce the
desired effect of stimulating conversation, but instead be met only by
an icy stare.
A student who is really serious about learning to speak English is going
to have to talk to foreigners sooner or later, and "there's no time like
the present." Start with a greeting, a few words, or a simple question
and work your way up. You don't have to attack every foreigner you meet
with every bit of English you know, but on the other hand, don't be afraid
to speak when the opportunity presents itself.