Mohammad Badr-e-Kamil
Fall 2001
This essay was selected
for publication in the special literary edition of
The International
Journal for Teachers of English Writing Skills,
August 2002 (Robbie
Dean Press, Ann Arbor, Michigan, USA).
"He's in the room at the end," said my mother. "Don't make too much noise."
I walked down the corridor of the ICU towards the room at the end of the
passage. The smell of medicine in the air tickled my nostrils. On top of
that, my eyes were squinting with pain because of a sprained ankle that
I had been awarded in a football match the day before. But what I saw in
the room which my mother had pointed out to me was to prove to be more
painful than a sprained ankle.
I saw a figure clothed in a white sheet from top to bottom. At first I
was a little uncertain about the identity of the person, but the figure
was unmistakable even under the covers. The shrouded person was my best
friend, my constant supporter, and my mentor. He was the person who had
been there for me in times of happiness as well as in times of distress.
He was the man who I hero-worshipped constantly, the one person who I adored
the most in the world. He was my father--and he was dead.…
It was as if somebody had smashed my heart to a pulp using a mallet. I
felt inundated by all the miserable emotions in the world. Loneliness covered
me from all sides, and the dark cloud of misery threatened to annihilate
me. Gone were the long nights when we would lie on the dew-ridden grass
beside the sea. Gone were the days when we would laugh at each other's
jokes for hours at an end. No longer would I be able to go talk to someone
about my major life problems. It was truly an end of an era in my life
and, sadly, life would never be the same again.
The day my father died was definitely the worst day of my life. I felt
extremely vulnerable to the terrors of this world. The fear of exposure
now that my primary guardian was not there was continuously haunting me.
I remember crying my heart out in the van which carried his body to the
mosque for his funeral prayers. I remember throwing handfuls of wet sand
into my father's grave as I bid a final farewell to him from this plane
of existence. At that moment, I could not comprehend with acceptance of
the fact that my eyes would never gaze upon his face again.
Returning home after burying a parent is an ordeal. As I entered my building,
I felt uneasy when I realized that I would never hear the thunderous voice
welcoming me back home echoing down the staircase when I returned from
school. The family sitting down and having a general chat in my bedroom
was now a thing of the past. I sat down at the dining table to have dinner,
but my eyes stared at the now-empty seat where my father would sit at suppertime.
Tears flowed from my eyes and dropped down into my food as I ate reluctantly.
I was literally "forced" to eat dinner that night.
But the aftermath of my father's death was to teach me a lot of lessons.
I saw people praising my father as a "good soul," and I realized that it
was a man's honesty and morality that made him an exalted and respected
person. My aims changed from "I want to become a rich man" to "I want to
become a good man." I wanted the image of my father to live on; I wanted
him to live on in me. But I was far from being a good man. I felt ashamed
of what I had become. In those days, I'm sorry to say, I had degenerated
into a very bad human being. Continuing to walk on such a path would only
serve to soil my father's reputation, and so I decided that the time had
come for me to walk back to the path of the righteous. I saw that a rocky
road lay in front of me. But one of my father's favorite quotes echoed
in my mind: "Thou art a falcon; circle high above the peaks of mountains."
I looked up at the skies, winked at the Guy upstairs, and walked forth
into the shadows of life....
"Since the beginning of time, darkness has attempted to swallow light but light has always broken free..." (Old Chinese proverb)